Hey there, thanks for stopping by! I'm looking for people to connect with on an emotional and intellectual level.
A bit about me... I'm a quiet, artistic introvert and I'm great friends with my inner child. Once you get me to open up I can be silly and fun and weird .
My hobbies and interests include but are not limited to reading, writing, photography, art, science fiction and fantasy, animals, nature, gardening, video games, history, culture, comics, board games, crafts, and being creative.
I'm body positive--I will never work to try to change my body or lose weight for you, but I also would never expect it of you or anyone else. No offense but if you are only attracted to thin people please move on, I'm not for you.
I am demi-binary and demisexual and I struggle at times to understand myself in this aspect so if you're confused, don't worry, we can start a club. I'd be happy to talk about it with you if you have any questions. I'll do my best to explain what I can.
I am panromantic but most attracted to women, androgynous people, gender nonconformists and non-binary individuals. I don't care what you look like, I am attracted to personalities more than bodies.
My husband and I have been together happily for upwards of six years and we discovered polyamory somewhere along the way. It just seems to fit with our beliefs. He isn't looking for anyone right now, but as for me I hope to find someone else I can connect with.
Still, I haven't dated much and to be honest I'm kind of nervous. Let's be friend first and let's see where it goes. If you are looking for a physical relationship please prepare to move very slow and start out as friends.
If you are asexual I am also cool with platonic romance.
Thanks for reading!
Jesnotjess, 38
currently offlineMission, TX, USA
Friendship first, lets see what happens
About Me
Gender
Gender Nonconforming, Genderqueer, Non-binary
Orientation
Demisexual, Gynephilic, Pansexual, Queer, Questioning
Height
5'05"
Weight
180 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
baking, board games, comic books, computers, cosplay, fleamarkets, gardening, history, internet, killing zombies, manga, nature, photography, reading, sculpting, sewing, video games, writing
Body Type
fat and proud, pleasantly plump
Movies
animation, fantasy, sci-fi
Orientation
asexual, pansexual
Eye Color
hazel, brown, green
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
married, polyamorous
Have Kids
no - do not want kids, no - open to adoption
Education Level
high school grad
Profession
Other, Artistic / Musical
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
with a significant other, with pets
Socially, I am
anti-social, better in small groups, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly, dealing with OCD
Political Views
liberal
Food Related
Indian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Organic, Raw Food, Thai, Vegan, Vegetarian, Candy is a Food Group, Right?
Personality
introvert, liberal, nerd, pirate, tree hugger, activist, artistic, fun loving, geek, intellectual, thrifty
Individuality
artist, brony, pegasister, pirate at heart
Religious Views
Pantheist
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, friends only, miss right, miss right now, penpal, relationship, romance, soulmate
My Sign
gemini : may 21-june 20, i was born in june
Pets
Cats, Dogs
Gender
Female, Not Sure
Music
Alternative Rock, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Hard Rock, Heavy Metal, Indie, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Opera, Pop, Punk, Rock, Soul, Techno, Trance, World, Celtic, Relaxation and Meditation
Hair Style
long hair, straight
Fitness & Sports
hiking, walking, working out, yoga
Health Related
alternative medicine, holistic treatment, homeopathy, therapy, chronic health issues
Languages
English
Looking for
Orientation
lesbian, pansexual, polysexual, transgender-mtf, asexual, bisexual, heteroflexible
Do they smoke?
for medicinal purposes, no - open to dating smokers though, no - will not date a smoker
Gender
Female, Transgender, Transgender-FTM
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