Indigoshock, 36

Me: For work, I'm a software development engineer for Microsoft. So...tech stuff.In my free time, I volunteer my time a lot. A few things: I've been a part of my improv group, Half Sister since 2014. I've also been volunteering as a crisis line phone worker since early 2018. And I volunteer with my fiance at Operation Nightwatch about once a month, cooking food for about 100 homeless people in 2 hours.Long term, I'd like to own a tiny house community. Build a family. Connect people.Long story short: I want a nesting partner. Eventually, I'd like to be married and raise children too. Of course, not off the bat. It'll take time before getting to that. But it's what I'm aiming for.So if you're already married or in a serious relationship that'll end up in legal marriage with your current partner, I have to say no. Reasoning: I am spiritually engaged to my fiance. What I mean that she is already married with children but we are life partners. We don't live together as it would complicate things with her and her husband's family. And she is done with having children. She and I date separately, meaning we do not date as a couple.
This is all me. You're welcome to talk with her to confirm this is true.