Wyldfarmer, 41

I love to laugh and value empathy, compassion, kindness, silliness, and groundedness. I am open-minded, honest, loyal. I enjoy helping people feel joyful and comfortable. I am a social justice activist and intersectionality is important to me as a feminist. My interests include homesteading/farming, birth, sustainable living, hedge-witchery, erbalism, knitting, survivalism, creativity, and sci-fi. If you're into Myers-Briggs I am an INFP.

My partner and I are polyamorous, and we have two children. I would like to have more someday either by birth or by blending families.

I am a lusciously fat woman, I am have natural body hair, and I rarely wear a bra. Though I would enjoy being more athletic I have a chronic pain disability called fibromyalgia. I also have a severe scent sensitivity, so I cannot date people who are cologne- or perfume-wearers or use scented products on their bodies or in their homes. I also am allergic to indoor animals.

I followed the attachment and free-range models of parenting. I am not permissive but my children know that they have a say in what happens in their lives. They are included in all family and household decision-making, and are expected to participate in the household workload.

Please note that I live rurally, and do not always have the most fantastic internet connection, so please do be patient in awaiting my responses.