Wings2explore, 56

i am not sure what to say about myself. i think i would prefer starting a chat with someone and sharing a little at a time as we explore getting to know one another.
i will say i have been married more years than i have not. my husband and i began exploring polyamory several years ago. he is currently seeing someone. perhaps being a little cautious, i have stuck to online relationships. most have been short term because because they were looking to have affairs. i have developed one long term online friendship with a man, however we have agreed to never meet due to his situation.
understand i am not interested in being anyone's affair, one night stand, or occasional h--k up. i desire a real relationship. i am okay with a married man, as long as the wife is aware and has agreed to him looking for an additional relationship.
i want a gentleman, not a boy in a man suit. i want a gentleman that knows how to treat a lady, because i am a lady. but if we were to make it to the bedroom, i want a man that is will to let me be se---lly free woman empowering me to enjoy every minute. i know i want a lot, but someone recently taught me that i am worth a lot.