Satedndated, 52

Someone like me Family is more than what tradition dictates or society expects; love is more than a ring, an anniversary, or an identification; friendship is more than a Facebook account or a few passing acquaintances.

I used to think if I looked hard enough I would find someone perfect, but perfection is a pointless pursuit. Instead of looking for someone who can fit into my ideal of the perfect mate, why not find others who make their own perfection through their relationships?

I'm partnered, deliriously happy, open-minded, and I'd like to find a secondary relationship with someone who can accept me for who I am and not judge me for what I'm not; someone possibly willing to join my family if our relationship blossoms, but also happy just being with me; someone who likes my geeky, *nalytical side but wants to explore physically and emotionally with an actual adult; someone I can talk to about any subject without offense or pretense and enjoys exploring new boundaries while respecting the ones that we have.

I know that those who are open to the idea of polyamory and open relationships tend to be intelligent and unconventional. I accept their quirkiness and individuality, although I'd prefer someone who is real and can easily integrate into the mainstream when needed, someone -------- of our relationships and accepting of our kids, someone preferably agnostic and capable of supporting themselves. While I'm open to being a third in a committed couple, I'd prefer the option of someone joining our family, preferably between 28-40 with one child or fewer. Experienced in alternative relationships or open lifestyles would also be beautiful.

Because I'm partnered, you don't need to date both of us, but you should definitely be willing to eat her cooking (don't worry - she's an amazing cook!).