Requiet, 34

About Me:
Hmm, My name is Pat, I'm an avid bibliophile, huge nerd, much more into table top and board/card games than video games, a softy at heart but tough when I need to be (Which is too often in life). I currently work with developmentally disabled individuals which is not really a career path I ever saw myself embarking upon but I'm really happy with the group of clients that I work with regularly and I hope this is something that sticks.
Authors: Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Garth Nix, Peter V. Brett, S.M. Stirling, Orson Scott Card, Scott Lynch, the list goes on for weeks.
Movies: About Time, Pitch Perfect, Lion King, Miyazaki/Ghibli, Disney/Pixar/Marvel
Shows: GoT, Lie to Me, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., Parks and Recreations
What I'm looking for:
Well my wife and I are looking for someone to explore this lifestyle with, I've known for years that I have been interested in forming a triangle, but my wife has gone between actively searching herself to forgetting about it entirely so I would definitely like someone with a bit of patience. We're looking for a friend first and for that to hopefully grow into something more serious and long term.Since I have very little say in anything I'll just list my wife's preferences:
She would like someone either slim or petite, or athletic, she's a lot pickier with woman than I am.
Otherwise we'd like someone intelligent, and someone who could show us some new things in life like their favorite hangout in the city or a great place to camp. We're looking for someone that really adds to our life and would like to become a part of our small family (Not just in the poly sense).

Also you MUST like puppies/dogs, our Lucy (4 month Golden) is a very large part of our life and whoever we bring into the fold would have to be ok with her.