Polyamorous Passions

If I like you and you like me, isn`t that good enough?

Relationship anarchist So often on these sites, what people are seeking is defined mostly by whether it is or is not a "h--k-p." I'm really not a big fan of labels, levels, and "term limits" (neither long nor short) for relationships. The "only's" and "more-than's" are something I really don't relate to...like, at all. What if we shed all those levels and types and such and just be...you know...humans? Bizarre, alien concept, I know. It's about depth, not time, and I can't emphasize that nearly enough! I think if I had to pick some sort of "ideal situation," it would be a cluster or web or tribe or something (not sure what to call it), which is very well-aligned but organized fluidly/consensually and non-hierarchically. To me, polyamory is NOT a "lifestyle," a sort of extra feature I've attached to my life, to be kept at arms'-length and thought of as "The Lifestyle." I'm polyamorous about everything, including people. I have never felt truly monogamous, though I've had more experience being one of many partners rather than "having" more than one (I so hate how that word sounds!). A close male friend and I were once involved in a sort of triad thing with a woman, several years ago, and we would consider such a thing again if we met someone well-aligned with us, though I am not specifically here only for that. I guess I should mention that I'm really, really not into any sort of "power play," dominance, or submission (non-hierarchical really does mean just that). I'm on a few other sites here, in case you're curious. I have some very liberal views about some things that, frankly, most people in this society don't share, and it would be nice to find others who do share them.

Body Type

disabled, slim

Movies

animation, psychological thrillers, mockumentaries, sci-fi, comedy, horror, action, indie, drama

Orientation

straight

Eye Color

hazel

Hair Color

dark brown, a little gray

Ethnicity

Vulcan

Relationship

single - never married, single

Have Kids

no - maybe with the right person

Education Level

high school grad, some college

Profession

Computer related / Hardware, Education / Academic Research

Income level

that's private

Do you smoke?

420

I currently live

alone, on a pirate ship

Socially, I am

comic relief, a total freak, loner

Political Views

socialist, progressive

Food Related

Candy is a Food Group, Right?

Personality

lover, pirate, geek, nerd, fun loving, total slacker, tree hugger, artistic, intellectual, loner, coffeeholic

Individuality

stache, goatee, beard, artist

Religious Views

Not Religious, Agnostic, Pagan, Pantheist, Atheist

Drugs

let's see, how should I answer this (wink, wink), socially

I'm looking for

penpal, something REALLY hot, travel companion, soulmate, the yin to my yang, miss right, romance, miss right now, relationship, dating, friends - with benefits, friends only, conversation

My Sign

leo : july 23-aug. 22, i don't believe in zodiac signs, i was born in august

Pets

No pets currently (but like them), Cat

Gender

Male

Music

Dance, Post Rock, Folk, Progressive Rock, Hard Rock, Rock, Hardcore, Techno, House, Trance, Punk, Indie, Reggae, Alternative Rock, Industrial, World, Classical, Jazz-Fusion, Relaxation and Meditation

Hair Style

long hair

Fitness & Sports

walking, bowling, hiking

Health Related

alternative medicine, western medicine

Groups:

Polyamorous ; Currently Single ; Seeking Committed Polyamorous Relationship

Orientation

transgender-mtf, straight, polysexual, pansexual, heteroflexible, bisexual

Have Kids

no - do not want kids, no - and am unable to, yes - grown and out of the house, yes, yes - single parent home, no - open to adoption, no - maybe with the right person

Do they smoke?

420, socially, only when I drink, no - open to dating smokers though, cigarettes, ceremonial smoking

Political Views

progressive, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, socialist, not interested in politics

Religious Views

Atheist, Buddhist, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Wiccan, Agnostic

Gender

Female, Transgender-MTF

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