Labbybug, 37

I’ve been interested in multiple partners physically for years, even though it’s only happened once and not with my husband. As I’ve matured, the idea of apples and oranges has appealed more and more. As in somedays I want an apple and the best apple for me, and other days it’s an orange. And some I’d like as a fruit salad. For now with life commitments, I can only have a -------- physical relationship (with my husband involved). In truth, he would be picking his second and then bringing to me. We are both very hard working. Kids and life has brought some softness into my mom bod. We are socially liberal but kinda redneck. We enjoy the outdoors as well as the occasional beer/mixed drink. I’m not looking to move a third or more into my house, but more a friend who would be ok with sharing. My men need to have calloused hands. That’s not innuendo either. I just don’t find soft men or obese men attractive. I show and like affection physically, so that is a must.