Johnolivia, 38

we are a nerdy couple who have had a few poly relationships. we are looking for someone to date either short term or long term if they are the right person. we both work a good bit and have kids, but we also like to enjoy life. we go to occasional concerts, play d&d with friends, watch nerdy movies and shows, and enjoy quality time. we would want our girlfriend to feel like an equal part of our relationship. we are -----, but that dynamic is not something we expect others to fall into. we both dislike drama and simply don't have time for it. if there is an issue, we discuss it like adults. (he deals with family disputes for a living, so drama is a big no for us.)