Introduce Yourself

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Please take a moment to introduce yourself to the other members of the site, and explain your connection with 'Polyamory'. For example, have you been in a poly relationship previously?

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[witchymama (deleted)]

Hi, I'm in an open marriage and have been for several years though we've both had limited experiences. One was from an online site and it was really good. As a witch, polyamory is generally accepted. My only caveat is this: anyone I am involved in must be completely truthful to both me and their spouse. I've been cheated on and I don't want to be the secret other woman. -------- yes, secret no. Anyways, looking forward to meeting new people and exploring s----l freedom.

[lover19741969 (deleted)]

`how do I get on this site?

[thedragos (deleted)]

`Basically, your on it. Click the other links and check it out.

[thedragos (deleted)]

witchymama wrote: Hi, I'm in an open marriage and have been for several years though we've both had limited experiences. One was from an online site and it was really good. As a witch, polyamory is generally accepted. My only caveat is this: anyone I am involved in must be completely truthful to both me and their spouse. I've been cheated on and I don't want to be the secret other woman. -------- yes, secret no. Anyways, looking forward to meeting new people and exploring s----l freedom.



Greetings,

Very true about wicca being open to polyamory, that's how I became wiccan to begin with. LOL.

Blessed be

[waterratfish (deleted)]

`My relationship life prior to 2010 was comprised of three long term monogamous relationships, (each of which failed on the weight of internal expectations), interspersed with some terrifically unsatisfying single periods.

I thrive on intimacy and affection; and have no jealousy issues; I love being with people who take a joy in the freedom of being alive and the ecstasy of ------- experience. Monogamy was never a good fit for me.

In 2010 I decided that I would give polyamory a try, and experimented with trying to establish a circle of lovers. I lived with my principal lover in her house and contributing to costs. three nights a week I lived with another lover. During that period I had four other "f*ck buddy" type relationships, more casual, overnight or weekend repeat flings, one of whom was a married woman.
The married woman wanted to keep our affair a secret from her husband, who was overseas at the time and had been for months. My principal lover and I initially insisted on openness. We wanted the husband to have the chance to accept and embrace the situation upon his return, and to enter our circle.
A disaster. the husband was instead outraged and spent the next year berating his wife who ended up coming to me in pieces and begging me to give her love and support without enflaming the situation by further revelations to the husband.
I conducted a secret affair, my principal lover was disgusted and we split.

The married woman then left her marriage at the start of this year and became my new principal lover, quite openly. Our relationship is known within our circle of friends to be open, and I have managed to rekindle relations with my former principal, who I now stay with once or twice a week. We are the best of friends and have recently started sharng physical love again.

Until recently I had one other long term but occasional polyamorous lover, but she has recently cut ties to focus on a new monogamous relationship.

My belief is that truth is paramount. Start fudging the truth, and keeping secrets, and the whole foundation of polyamorous relationships collapses. You can manage jealousies, neediness, greed, envy- with open discussion. Love loves best to play in the light!

Love the love that loves to love

[hollyandchris84 (deleted)]

Hello everyone!
We are a very strong loving couple that are looking to share our lives with someone. We have explored with poly relationships and enjoyed one for about 5 months with a lovely lady, but things just wasn't meant to be. Chris and I enjoy giving and sharing our hearts with another and want nothing more than make someone as happy as we make each other. :lol:

Looking faithfully...
Chris and Holly

[confusedascared (deleted)]

`Hi all,
Myself and my husband have been together for nine years, just recently over the last month or so we have begun to have feelings for one of my friends and co-workers. (This was never and thought out process it has just all happened) We have all had discussions about the three of us having a relationship. We know it is not going to be an easy journey, and I am scared it could ultimately ruin my marriage with my husband and or friend ship with my friend.
yet I am not sure I want what we have to end either.
confused and scared.

[bandit814 (deleted)]

hello y'all, I'm a single country boy. I have been interested in this lifestyle for a few years now. I'm easy going and down to earth. but I don't know really how to start this. I don't really want just a normal poly relationship. I don't feel like there would be anything for me in that. I would love to have a polygamy group marriage if that makes sense

[blairgriffen]

`Hello
I am an openly poly-amorous person who is currently in a committed relationship to another person. We have discussed my desire to find another partner. Although my current partner is planning on staying attached only to me, they are open to me seeking other relationships.
I am looking for a partner who is open, loving, honest. I am not seeking flings. I yearn for commitment and I have always known I would not be fulfilled in life living monogamously. I have had several long term partners. I have only have 2 long-term poly relationships. One with two men as a hinge relationship; and one as a triad with another couple.
I have a lot of love to share with my partners and I have never had a problem showing equal affection and care to my partners. I despised favoritism, but am not opposed to being a couples secondary partner [as long as the understanding is there that I'm not a lesser partner in the relationship].

[reluctant (deleted)]

``I would love to chat and get input.

Straight woman, recently out of long-term, monogamous marriage.

Have fallen madly in love with bisexual man who greatly desires us to be in a polyamorous relationship.

This isn't my choice, but I will explore to please him.

What do I need to know? How do I move from reluctant to welcoming?

[almaren (deleted)]

Hello, My love and I found that we both hope for a play mate some day. We wish her to be geeky and maybe a bit magical. But nether of us know how to start looking for her. We have never done any of this before.

[lindseylau93]

`Hi all! I'm Lindsey. I'm single, about to graduate college, and I'm exploring what the Conway/Little Rock area has to offer.
I am happiest when I have multiple partners. I recently watched a video about polyamory and realized that's my mindset. I've always played with the idea of introducing my partners to each other to see what happens. I want to try this out, as I'm sure it's what I want.

[jhc31 (deleted)]

My name is Jason. My wife and I are Christians and got into this after looking up what the Bible had to say about it, and decided it would be a good idea for the purposes of love and family building. We are seeking a like-minded Woman to join us and help build a family.